• People Magazine Review

    People Magazine reviewed HOW TO BE AN AMERICAN HOUSEWIFE this week.  It’s the one with the Duggars on the cover.  If you don’t know the name Duggar, you might know of a family that has 19 kids.  All single births, I believe.  That adds up to many years of pregnancy.  But I digress. People gave…

  • San Diego Book Launch

    Picture it: Star Wars, 1977. Lines snaking around the block. Okay, well, that’s a little bit bigger than my book launch, but that’s the idea of it.  It was a standing-room only crowd at Barnes & Noble Grossmont (La Mesa), the biggest event they’d ever had.  They sold out of books and the manager drove…

  • San Diego

    So I got here to my hometown of San Diego and have been doing two things: eating Mexican food/In n Out (animal style!) and signing stock. When I sign stock, I wonder if anyone will ask me for ID or at least look at my book jacket photo, but no one has yet. What if…

  • Le Book Launch

    Last night I had the book launch at Ala Moana Barnes & Noble. It was back in the cookbook nook. They’d taken out all the cookbooks and put out a ginormous display of my books. Don’t the colors look awesome on that wood? I mean, if you can see the colors. The flash on the…

  • First Day of Kindergarten

    Today is Kaiya’s first day of kindergarten. Almost. Yesterday was a parent-only orientation, which I probably didn’t need to attend as I’m an Old Hand at kindergarten by now. Today is the Group A orientation half-day. Kaiya then gets the whole rest of the week off, has another orientation on Monday, and finally begins in…

  • Getting Ready for the Book Launch

    The community relations manager showed me a HUGE 5 foot by 8 foot banner that was made up for the event. “We’ve never had a sign like this,” she said, clearly delighted, as she and another guy rolled it out for me to see. It was printed on a plastic canvas, like the all-weather banners…

  • Redbook

    Redbook came out.  For the past week people have been e-mailing me telling me they had seen the review.  But here in Hawaii, it hadn’t hit newsstands yet. Finally yesterday my husband procured one at the Longs across from his work. I have to love a review that references Mad Men, my favorite show, even…

  • Aloha Spirit

    I looked out to see him trying to maneuver a 7.5 foot tall box up the stairs to the townhouse, and a stranger, a middle-aged Chinese gentleman, helping him. “All right! I’ll get it from here,” Cadillac said once he wedged the box through the front door. “Thanks! You’re a great neighbor.”

  • Eating Like Your Ancestors

    When I was a kid, I used to wonder which part of me came from which parent, as if I could draw a line down my middle and figure this out. Some things are easy: my hands look just like my mother’s. My nose, says my dad, is a Hartley nose from his mother (not,…

  • My Books Are Here!

    Kaiya was in my belly when I first started writing this book. I had high blood pressure and the doctor had me doing nothing more than sitting up, so during that summer of 2005 I began writing the novel.